Sunday, September 30, 2007

We made it - beautiful Aruba!


Wow, all I have to say is - AMAZING! and totally worth the hellish travel mayhem it took to get here. I'll start with the day we left, Saturday.

The morning went pretty smoothly. DH and I were up around 3:45, and woke the boys at 4:30 - a.m. We'd prepared the boys well, explaining that we'd be waking them up before the sunshine was awake, that it would still be dark and would feel like nighttime. I gave them their new dinosaur "travel buddies" which they loved and have kept close almost the entire trip so far. We left the house before 5 a.m. (our goal). We parked in sattelite parking and had a shuttle waiting for us. Our check-in was a little lengthy due to the international travel but American Airlines has a new system that's all automated. We had a very nice customer service rep walk us through the entire process, I was definitely impressed. We got through security with no issues, and were at our gate in time to relax for a while before the flight started to board. The boys were happy with cereal bars and juice in their new Spiderman sippy cups.

The flight was seamless, not full - though there aren't many people crazy enough to travel that early in the morning on a Saturday. We didn't even have to really tap into any of the "new" toys, books or activities we brought. The novelty of being on the plane and watching all of the activity was plenty enough to keep them entertained for the 57 minutes.

We should have known it was too good to be true. Once we landed in Chicago, things went very quickly downhill. Our next flight was delayed 4 hours due to a mechanical failure, which meant we were going to miss our connection in Miami. My family didn't arrive until we'd already been waiting for an hour. So, we got a little bit more substantial breakfast (I'd had yogurt at 5 a.m.) and tried to keep the boys occupied.

Thomas was great, just a little whiney at times, but overall, obedient and in good spirits. Andrew was, well, Andrew. The first gate we were waiting in opened into a large atrium with the American Airlines logo on the floor. Andrew thought this was a great opportunity to lay face down, head resting on his new dinosaur buddy, and wet his pants. He was wearing a Pull-Up, but leaked right out of it. I got him changed and cleaned up, and we headed back to the gate. I pulled out just about every activity we'd brought trying to keep the boys entertained. Andrew kept running back to the atrium, dropping to the floor in a spin reminiscent of true 80s style breakdancing. There was another much younger toddler that was watching him, with fascination and pure glee. Andrew was the picture of freedom. He loved to lay on his back and stare straight up into the atrium, or just run in circles and then try to tackle Mommy.

We did finally get our flights figured out. We ended up flying to New York, spending the night then flying direct to Aruba on Sunday morning. This was the best deal and we only lost about half a day. The boys really were troopers, despite the fact that Mommy and Daddy were totally wiped and very short on patience. They watched a couple of movies, Andrew slept on my lap through the first half of lunch, then they both crashed on the flight to New York. Every time Andrew slept, it just upped the spaz factor. By the time we got to New York, he wanted very little to do with the stroller. He just wanted to run!

Our bags did not make it to New York (big surprise), but most of us had brought an extra change of clothes, and I actually had some travel size toiletries. None of us had pajamas, however, but I was wearing my cotton sundress which nicely doubled as a nightgown ;)

We got to the hotel where the airline was putting us up on a packed to the gills shuttle bus, only to find yet another incredible line of people waiting to check in. My mom and I took the boys right to the restaurant and ordered them some dinner. Andrew would sit as long as there was food in front of him, but he was finished well before we ever got our food and refused to stay in his seat. He polished off a giant piece of cake (after M&Ms, iced animal crackers and plenty of apple juice throughout the day - ugh, sugar overload!) and wanted to run laps around the restaurant. The boys were both pretty slap happy at that point, so DH took them up to the room and popped in a Thomas the Train movie. When I got up to the room about 20 minutes later, the lights were off, and they were totally engrossed in the movie. DH hadn't gone through any part of the bedtime routine, so I got them all settled for bed. We read one of their new dinosaur books, went potty, had to skip the teeth brushing, said prayers and lights went out.

Andrew was convinced that there was more yet to do with the day...he wanted to read books, and I could tell he was trying to settle down, the poor guy. He was driving Thomas nuts, and though DH and I drifted in and out of light sleep, Andrew was up for at least another 20 minutes. Finally...all was quiet.

We started the day Sunday at 5:20 a.m. I showered, then woke up DH and the boys. We met the rest of the family in the lobby to wait for the shuttle back to the airport. It was another sardine-can-like ride, with very nice people, however, and it was quick. We got our boarding passes, went through security and made our way to our gate with little struggle. We pretty much have the security thing down, with DH and I dividing and conquering between getting ourselves, two young toddlers, and several bags through without completely holding up the line. The boys are old enough now, too, to walk through the security gate by themselves and wait for us on the other side.

We had breakfast together, I bought a package of $20 size 3 Pampers (CRAZY!) because we were out of Pull-Ups. I prayed there wouldn't be a blow out!

The flight to Aruba, while long, went fairly smoothly. We used up the batteries on both laptops while the boys watched two movies each. Andrew got really into the Color Wonder paints and Winnie the Pooh book. Thomas napped briefly, ate a good lunch, and was pretty easy. I have never been so glad to see land, though, as I was when we landed in Aruba. Even being smacked in the face with the hot, humid air was luxurious.

We got through customs and had yet one final snafu with our bags. Most of ours were waiting for us when we got there, and the last one came off with the rest of the bags on the flight from New York. My dad and brother had to wait in line for a while before learning that theirs were simply being stored behind the desk.

Finally, we were boarding two taxi-SUVs/minivans and were on our way to the resort.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Countdown is On

We are now just four days away from our trip to Aruba! I'm feeling way more optimistic about our travel day. I picked up a few more things this afternoon - frosted animal crackers, M&M mini bags, and writing pads. I think we'll just purchase drinks at the airport.

We found out that we will meet up with my family after the first flight so we'll have help a little earlier than I'd thought.

It's been a real struggle to concentrate at work this week...I'm just so ready to go! I have most of our clothes packed, reading materials and the carry ons about ready to go. I'll be spending the day Friday cleaning the house so we don't come home to a pig sty.

I've been a little preoccupied for other reasons, which I hope I can share in the next week or two :) I really hope the next two days fly by!

Monday, September 17, 2007

One Little Monkey...

Jumping on the bed. He fell off and bumped his head...

We'd been after the boys all day to stop jumping on the bed. We'd had friends over and they were completely wound up. DH was changing in our bedroom for his softball game while my youngest was apparently disregarding every warning we'd given him throughout the day, including the one DH had JUST uttered before going into the other room to change. A very loud thud and blood curdeling scream later...large 2 inch gash in my youngest's forehead.

You forget how much the head bleeds...must be God's way of shocking the hell out of you to act fast. We had my youngest in the car and were on the way to the ER within 15 minutes. The bleeding actually stopped fairly quickly with a little bit of pressure.

Dermabond is a wonder! They basically put superglue in the wound and squeeze the skin back together. From what we understand, in about five days the dermabond will peel off on its own and the wound will heal on its own from there. No traumatic stitches, though you would have thought that's what they were doing when they had to hold him down to put the dermabond on.

The nurses and ER doc at North KC Hospital were great. We were in and out in less than two hours, that has to be a record for us.

And what was one of the first thing's my darling toddler did when we got upstairs to take a bath? Started jumping on the large chair in our bedroom. And when I kneeled down and explained that he can NOT jump on the furniture ever again...big smile. Lord help us...

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Retail Therapy is Great for Panic

So, I went on a little shopping spree last weekend in an attempt to find enough "surprises" to keep the boys entertained on our travel to and from Aruba. Here's a quick run down:
  • Dinosaur story book and plush dinosaur for each (this will be their suprise first thing in the morning to get them up and going, the dinos will be their travel "buddies" for the trip)
  • Two card games (in cute mini-lunchboxes) for my 4 1/2 year old
  • New Spiderman sippy cups
  • Mini-movie projectors with wild animal slides
  • Monkey hand puppet
  • Disney's Little Einsteins "action" figures
  • Four Crayola Color Wonder activity books (one for each child per trip)
  • New Thomas the Tank Engine movie
  • New Little Einsteins movie

Good news - DH is bringing two laptops (one is a back up) to watch the movies so no need to fork over the cash for a new portable DVD player! Between all of the new activities (as well as a few of their stand-by favorites that we'll bring as well) and plenty of snacks I'm feeling a little more confident that it won't be melt down city throughout the day.

I also picked up a cute cotton sundress, straw hat, flip flops and glamour sun glasses - both comfy AND trendy! I'm definitely getting more excited!

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

So little time...

I'm sitting here trying to make it to 4 p.m. so I can have my second afternoon snack. Darling hubby (DH) is trying this new diet that says you have to wait at least two hours between snacks. Seeing that I need to lose about 10 lbs., I figured I'd try some of the techniques. It's much harder than it looks as my eyes fog over and my motivation takes a nose dive. Only 12 more minutes!

Now that I've bypassed the first major hurdle toward achieving my APR accreditation (national standard for public relations), I feel like I can start thinking beyond the next couple of days. Fifty-three pages later, it's like a huge weight off my shoulders, though I still have a two hour presentation and 150 question exam to prepare for!

That being said, I've allowed myself a few indulgences today including doing some online "window shopping" for a new sundress to take to Aruba. Yes, Aruba...with the kids. My parents turned 50 this year and wanted to take the entire family on a tropical vacation. They surprised us with the invitation in late 2005. I had one child that was almost three and another that was almost 18 months old. We were looking at a trip sometime in late 2006 or 2007. I thought for sure they would be less demanding and easier to travel with by then - snort!

The original plan was to go in the spring of this year. I researched resorts all over the world looking for the most family-friendly and once-in-a-lifetime vacation spots I could find. We seemed to keep coming back to Aruba no matter where else we looked and it was settled. Now we just needed to determine a date. Last summer I was trying to start a magazine career and thought I might be in the middle of launching a new publication the following spring. We also told my parents we wanted to start trying for baby number three some time this year but would hold off until we returned from the trip.

Ah, the perils of planning a vacaction by commitee, and 18 months to two years in advance. So many unknowns, and everyone has their own agendas.

When my magazine dream crumbled last summer, my parents tried to book a spring trip but none of the villas in Aruba were available. The travel agent said that we needed to book them at least a year in advance...this was summer of 2006. So, October it was. Booking a year in advance using points is allowing my parents to take all of us virtually for free, however, according to my dad we got the bottom of the barrel pick for our travel schedule. This has been a small source of anxiety for hubby and I...especially the last several months as we've realized our three-year-old will in fact NOT be any easier to travel with now than he was at 18 months.

Here's our schedule:
6:30 a.m. Flight #1
10:30 a.m. Flight #2
Four hour layover in Miami (!!!!) - but this is where we'll connect with the rest of the family.
6:00 p.m. Flight #3
Arrive in Aruba at 8:45 p.m. - a good 45 minutes past the boys' bedtime.

So needless to say, it is going to be a long, exhausting and very challenging day. I've done some initial research online to find articles about traveling with toddlers, especially energetic ones. Parents Magazine's site was incredibly helpful, as was BabyCenter.com.

We'll be taking lots of new activities - anything they will be happy doing while they are seated - a car seat for my three-year-old, snacks, and we will probably have to invest in a portable DVD player. I'm trying to think of a cool surprise to get the boys out of bed that morning since we'll have to be out of the house by 5 a.m. to get to the airport in time.

Sigh...I am SURE it will all be well worth it once we're sitting by the pool, or riding our inflatable toys around the luxurious lazy river, sipping our fru fru drinks. I just wish we could skip the whole nightmare travel day.

We got a nice glimpse of what it may be like when last weekend, as we were traveling back to KC from my parents' lake house, our car broke down. We had to spend two hours in an O'Reilly Autoparts store while "Dustin" looked our car over and my husband discussed our options. The packaged Hot Wheels cars entertained the boys for a good 20 minutes, but it was downhill from there. At one point, they were literally running laps around the entire store while I stood by the door with a completely defeated, blank stare on my face. I had already chased them down two or three times and begged, pleaded and bribed them to stay in one place, but that only resulted in a sword fight with these antenae-lookin extendable magnets (no IDEA what one would use THAT for!). So, finally, I just stood in one place and when anyone caught my eye I gave them a sheepish grin and said pitifully, "We've been here a while..."

Think that will play in Miami?